Saturday, December 8, 2007

The 4 Year Old Gets It

The girls are staying with me this weekend; and as is custom, I was up early trying to complete my little railroad tasks before they woke up. At 6:20, Maggie was the first one out of bed with Nora not far behind. I went in my room to check on Grace and try to sneak in some snuggle time. Nora came back in and a big group hug ensued. I asked Nora what she wanted for Christmas. She was quick to respond, “You!”. That’s a sweet sentiment, but I think it may be more from the Mariah Carey song than actual Christmas wishes….maybe I’m wrong. After a few more minutes of snugglin’ and discussion about the day’s plans, I told Grace and Nora that I had to get back to work. There was the usual disappointment and questions that followed. I told them that I had to do this work because I get paid to do it, and that while we shouldn’t care too much about money, we realize that work is something we have to do to get money for the things we need like food and clothes. I told them that one day they would get jobs and make money, too. Grace said “We’ll make LOTS of money!”, to which Nora responded “And we’ll give it away.” Well, this development got Grace’s attention, and I explained that after you had taken care of your family and church, you should look to help others that need it. Nora went on to explain that there are people who are out of money and need our help.

To recap: Nora wants me for Christmas, and she realizes there are people less fortunate than she who need our help.


2 comments:

Lori Shay said...

Yay for positive parenting! And Yay for morning snuggles! I approve.

Rachel said...

Awww...such sweet girls! From the mouths of babes, right?